But parents need to be very thoughtful and be extra careful when considering to physical punishment , usually corporal punishment because it poses some problems in , among others :
Usually only effective when done for the first time since this action is generally surprising children . However, its effectiveness is reduced when used repeatedly or when accompanied by anger and rejection .
Can create the impression on the children that hurting others is an acceptable thing .
Can cause anger in children that actually leads to aggressive behavior ( eg , defiant , destructive items )
Parents easily lose control of yourself while doing it.